If you’ve ever cringed at something your kid came home saying about food or their body after a day at school… friend, I get it.
I’ll never forget the day my son—fresh out of kindergarten—waltzed through the door clutching a worksheet from his “healthy eating lesson.” He proudly showed me where he had circled the “healthy” foods and X’d out the “unhealthy” ones, just like the teacher told him to.
Cue the deep sigh, the slow sink into my chair, and the eye roll (yes, all three happened in quick succession 😅). As a food freedom dietitian and mama who works hard to teach my kids that all foods are morally neutral, this worksheet felt like a flashing neon sign for one of those “We need to talk” moments.
Because here’s the deal—those kinds of messages? They don’t just stay on the worksheet. They sink deep into our kids’ little hearts and minds, shaping how they see food… and eventually, how they see themselves.
And...
Ever feel like you’re doing so well… then one “off” week wrecks everything? One comment, one meal, one moment—and suddenly it feels like you’re right back where you started.
If that sounds familiar, you are so not alone.
Let me tell you about a client of mine (we’ll call her Emily). She was finally feeling confident about her food choices, seeing progress, and embracing a little more freedom each day.
Then she started seeing a new physician.
And this doctor? Ohhh boy.
He handed her a brand new list of “shoulds” and “shouldn’ts”—dietary rules she never asked for—delivered in the most triggering, rigid, food-rule-heavy way possible.
All that hard-fought progress? Suddenly, Emily felt like she was starting from ground zero.
Her words?
“I’m overwhelmed. This feels like a setback I’m not strong enough to come back from.”
Whew. Been there? Me too.
But here’s what I told her (and what I want you to hear to...
Ever feel like everyone else got the secret playbook for how to “just eat” without spiraling—and yours got lost in the mail? 😅 Maybe you’ve stared down a barbecue plate, praying for the willpower to “be good,” while secretly wondering why this feels so hard. If you’ve ever wished you could just be a normal eater, you are so not alone—and girl, I’ve got good news.
Normal eating isn’t some elusive thing reserved for Instagram influencers and nutrition nerds. It’s for you too. Yes, even if you’ve struggled with food guilt, body image obsession, or that all-or-nothing mindset for years. In this post, we're gonna break down what normal eating really is, how diet culture has distorted it, and how you can start taking steps toward freedom—starting today. 💃
Let’s dive in.
Spoiler alert: It doesn’t mean salads and sparkling water every meal. And it definitely does...
Oh friend, if I had a dollar for every time a Christian woman whispered this question with a cocktail of guilt, shame, and curiosity—I’d be writing this blog from a beach house in Maui. 🏖️
But in all seriousness, if you’ve been wrestling with this exact thought, I want you to hear me loud and clear:
You are NOT disqualified from pursuing food freedom just because part of you still wants weight loss.
Let’s break this tension down together—with grace, truth, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit (not the scale).
First, a big ol’ exhale. You’re not the only Christian woman who feels this way. This desire to “want both” is extremely common—especially if you’ve grown up in a performance-based or image-focused environment.
“Brittany, I don’t want to obsess over food anymore... but also, I’d love...
You don’t need a different body this summer. You need a different perspective.
Whew. Let that sink in for a second, friend.
If the thought of swimsuit season makes you want to grab your comfiest black leggings and oversized T-shirt (even in the blazing July heat 🥵), then keep reading… because this post? It’s written for you.
Whether you’re Googling “how to lose belly fat fast” (no judgment—we’ve all been there), or debating whether it’s actually worth going to the pool because you can’t stand the thought of being seen in a swimsuit, you’re not alone.
But what if I told you that your confidence this summer doesn’t have to come from losing weight or changing your body?
What if it could come from the inside out—through mindset, style choices, and a whole lotta grace?
Let’s dive into a new way to do summer.
Every summer, the same messages creep in...
“You can’t wear that until you l...
Sacrificing your sanity doesn’t make you more holy. Let’s talk about what actually honors Jesus… and it starts with caring for YOU.
Let me guess. You just reheated your coffee for the third time today (and still didn’t drink it). You’ve wiped sticky fingers, packed lunches, managed a toddler meltdown, and maybe—just maybe—answered three emails or texts in the middle of snack time chaos. Somewhere between all that, you remembered: “Oh yeah, I was gonna start working on food freedom this summer.”
Friend… can we talk?
Because I need you to hear me loud and clear:
Prioritizing your recovery isn’t selfish. It’s sacred.
Even as a mama. Especially as a mama.
I hear it all the time from the incredible women I work with:
“I’ll work on my food issues after the kids go back to school.”
“I feel guilty spending time on myself.”
“I can’t start healing until I get all my other responsibilities handled first.”
Sound familiar?...
Because if you’ve ever silently panicked mid-snuggle, wondering if he’s thinking what you’re thinking about your body… this one’s for you, sister.
It’s vulnerable. It’s uncomfortable. And it’s super tempting to just avoid the topic altogether.
But here’s the deal: Hiding your body image struggles from your spouse won’t protect your marriage—it might just create more distance.
And that’s the exact opposite of what you want, right?
So today, we’re getting into the nitty-gritty of how to actually talk to your husband about your body image—without spiraling into shame or putting up emotional walls.
Spoiler alert: You don’t have to have the perfect words. You just need an open heart and a whole lotta grace.
Let’s dive in.
Let me just go ahead and say it: Knowing when you're hungry should be simple. I mean, God designed our bodies with hunger and fullness cues for a reason, right? But between diet culture, the busyness of life, and years of ignoring those signals because some influencer said we needed to eat 1,200 calories a day (🙄), those cues can get a little... fuzzy.
So if you’ve ever found yourself asking, “Am I really hungry or just bored/stressed/anxious/all of the above?”, you're not alone.
Today, we’re diving into the wild and wonderful world of hunger cues: how to recognize them, what messes them up, and how to tune back in—so you can start trusting your God-given signals again and nourish your body with confidence. 🙌
"So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God."
– 1 Corinthians 10:31
Okay, let’s be real. Your hun...
Have you ever found yourself thinking, "I mean, things are fine... I'm managing... it's not that bad"—while deep down, you know you're clinging to control like a lifeline because you’re too afraid of what might happen if you let go?
If you just nodded your head (or felt a little seen 🙋♀️), friend, you’re in the right place.
Because here’s the truth: You weren’t created just to survive.
You were created to THRIVE—like, abundantly, joyfully, whole-heartedly thrive. And while that probably sounds really sweet and inspiring, I know firsthand that actually believing it? That’s a whole different story when you’re in the thick of it. Especially when you’re staring down a recovery journey that feels like a hot mess of fear, shame, and "what ifs."
But oh, sweet friend—there is hope. And I want to walk with you as we unpack what it means to find it, even when it feels far away.
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