What Is Normal Eating? A Christ-Centered Guide to Ditching Food Guilt & Finding Freedom

Ever feel like everyone else got the secret playbook for how to “just eat” without spiraling—and yours got lost in the mail? 😅 Maybe you’ve stared down a barbecue plate, praying for the willpower to “be good,” while secretly wondering why this feels so hard. If you’ve ever wished you could just be a normal eater, you are so not alone—and girl, I’ve got good news.

Normal eating isn’t some elusive thing reserved for Instagram influencers and nutrition nerds. It’s for you too. Yes, even if you’ve struggled with food guilt, body image obsession, or that all-or-nothing mindset for years. In this post, we're gonna break down what normal eating really is, how diet culture has distorted it, and how you can start taking steps toward freedom—starting today. 💃

Let’s dive in.

What Does "Normal Eating" Even Mean?

Spoiler alert: It doesn’t mean salads and sparkling water every meal. And it definitely does...

Can the Desire to Lose Weight AND Pursue Food Freedom Coexist?

“I want food freedom… but I also kinda want to lose weight. Is that wrong?”

Oh friend, if I had a dollar for every time a Christian woman whispered this question with a cocktail of guilt, shame, and curiosity—I’d be writing this blog from a beach house in Maui. 🏖️

But in all seriousness, if you’ve been wrestling with this exact thought, I want you to hear me loud and clear:

You are NOT disqualified from pursuing food freedom just because part of you still wants weight loss.

Let’s break this tension down together—with grace, truth, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit (not the scale).

The Honest Truth: You’re Not Alone in This Tension

First, a big ol’ exhale. You’re not the only Christian woman who feels this way. This desire to “want both” is extremely common—especially if you’ve grown up in a performance-based or image-focused environment.

“Brittany, I don’t want to obsess over food anymore... but also, I’d love...

3 Summer Style Hacks to Feel More Confident

You don’t need a different body this summer. You need a different perspective.

Whew. Let that sink in for a second, friend.

If the thought of swimsuit season makes you want to grab your comfiest black leggings and oversized T-shirt (even in the blazing July heat 🥵), then keep reading… because this post? It’s written for you.

Whether you’re Googling “how to lose belly fat fast” (no judgment—we’ve all been there), or debating whether it’s actually worth going to the pool because you can’t stand the thought of being seen in a swimsuit, you’re not alone.

But what if I told you that your confidence this summer doesn’t have to come from losing weight or changing your body?
What if it could come from the inside out—through mindset, style choices, and a whole lotta grace?

Let’s dive into a new way to do summer.

☀️ The Lie We’ve Been Sold About Summer & Body Image

Every summer, the same messages creep in...

“You can’t wear that until you l...

Sacrificing your sanity doesn’t make you more holy. Let’s talk about what actually honors Jesus… and it starts with caring for YOU.

Are You Running on Empty?

Let me guess. You just reheated your coffee for the third time today (and still didn’t drink it). You’ve wiped sticky fingers, packed lunches, managed a toddler meltdown, and maybe—just maybe—answered three emails or texts in the middle of snack time chaos. Somewhere between all that, you remembered: “Oh yeah, I was gonna start working on food freedom this summer.”

Friend… can we talk?

Because I need you to hear me loud and clear:
Prioritizing your recovery isn’t selfish. It’s sacred.
Even as a mama. Especially as a mama.

The Lie That Keeps Christian Moms Stuck

I hear it all the time from the incredible women I work with:

“I’ll work on my food issues after the kids go back to school.”
“I feel guilty spending time on myself.”
“I can’t start healing until I get all my other responsibilities handled first.”

Sound familiar?...