Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you try, your relationship with food is stuck on repeat? You swear off the donuts (again), only to find yourself elbow-deep in a bag of Cheetos after a stressful day. đââď¸ Oy vey!
If that sounds familiar, you are not alone. In fact, today I want to share a powerful story from one of my amazing clients, Laurie, whose journey from restriction and guilt into joy-filled, Christ-centered eating will inspire you to see that yes, food freedom is possibleâeven for you.
Laurieâs testimony reminds us that healing doesnât happen overnight. Itâs a journey, not a sprint. But itâs a journey worth taking, because it leads to more than just peace with food. It leads to a deeper, richer walk with Jesus. âď¸
When Laurie first reached out for support, she was caught in a cycle so many of us know all too well:
Have you ever noticed how the âperfect timeâ to start something⌠never actually shows up?
You wait for the house to calm down, for the kids to be in the next season of life, for your work schedule to lighten, or for that magical burst of motivation to finally kick in. And yetâpoof!âthat moment seems to vanish like the last cookie in the pantry.
Friend, I get it. The thought of tackling your relationship with food when you already feel stretched thin? Overwhelming. But hereâs the secret most women donât realize:
đ The best time to begin your journey toward food freedom is exactly when you feel least ready.
Sounds backwards, right? But stick with me. Letâs unpack why waiting for âreadyâ is keeping you stuckâand why stepping in right now might be the most life-giving decision you make.
Imagine for a minute that your food freedom journey is like planting a garden. đą
No gardener waits for the âperfectâ conditions before planting. ...
We need to have a little heart-to-heart, friend. Because if thereâs one struggle I see over and over again in the women I work with, itâs this: clinging to control with food and body feels safe, but itâs not peace. And itâs definitely not freedom.
If youâve ever thought, âIf I could just control what I eat better⌠if I could just stick to my food rules⌠if I could just control my body shape or size, THEN Iâd finally feel at peaceâ â this post is for you.
Peace and control are not the same thing. In fact, theyâre polar opposites. And Iâm going to show you why today â with a little tough love, a lot of grace, and some Jesus-centered encouragement along the way. â¤ď¸
Letâs be real for a sec. Control feels safe. It feels predictable. It feels like weâre putting ourselves in the driverâs seat, keeping the chaos of life neatly packed into a box (or a color-coded planner đââď¸).
But hereâs the deal: control is a counterfeit version of peace.
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If youâve ever found yourself spiraling down the rabbit hole of diet rules, calorie tracking apps, âclean eatingâ lists, or âjust one more workout will fix itâ⌠đââď¸ friend, you are not alone.
But can we just be honest for a second? Quick fixes donât fix much of anything. Sure, they might feel like theyâre working for a hot second. But eventuallyâwhether itâs two weeks or two years down the roadâyou find yourself back in the same cycle of restriction, control, frustration, and wondering if food will ever not feel like the boss of you.
Thatâs why today weâre talking about what to actually reach for when food and body control isnât working (because honestly, it never really does).
This message is rooted in a powerful lesson from Exodus about Godâs daily provision of manna and water for the Israelitesâa story that has so much to say about our tendency to chase control instead of trust. An...
If youâve ever cringed at something your kid came home saying about food or their body after a day at school⌠friend, I get it.
Iâll never forget the day my sonâfresh out of kindergartenâwaltzed through the door clutching a worksheet from his âhealthy eating lesson.â He proudly showed me where he had circled the âhealthyâ foods and Xâd out the âunhealthyâ ones, just like the teacher told him to.
Cue the deep sigh, the slow sink into my chair, and the eye roll (yes, all three happened in quick succession đ ). As a food freedom dietitian and mama who works hard to teach my kids that all foods are morally neutral, this worksheet felt like a flashing neon sign for one of those âWe need to talkâ moments.
Because hereâs the dealâthose kinds of messages? They donât just stay on the worksheet. They sink deep into our kidsâ little hearts and minds, shaping how they see food⌠and eventually, how they see themselves.
And...
Ever feel like youâre doing so well⌠then one âoffâ week wrecks everything? One comment, one meal, one momentâand suddenly it feels like youâre right back where you started.
If that sounds familiar, you are so not alone.
Let me tell you about a client of mine (weâll call her Emily). She was finally feeling confident about her food choices, seeing progress, and embracing a little more freedom each day.
Then she started seeing a new physician.
And this doctor? Ohhh boy.
He handed her a brand new list of âshouldsâ and âshouldnâtsââdietary rules she never asked forâdelivered in the most triggering, rigid, food-rule-heavy way possible.
All that hard-fought progress? Suddenly, Emily felt like she was starting from ground zero.
Her words?
âIâm overwhelmed. This feels like a setback Iâm not strong enough to come back from.â
Whew. Been there? Me too.
But hereâs what I told her (and what I want you to hear to...
Ever feel like everyone else got the secret playbook for how to âjust eatâ without spiralingâand yours got lost in the mail? đ Maybe youâve stared down a barbecue plate, praying for the willpower to âbe good,â while secretly wondering why this feels so hard. If youâve ever wished you could just be a normal eater, you are so not aloneâand girl, Iâve got good news.
Normal eating isnât some elusive thing reserved for Instagram influencers and nutrition nerds. Itâs for you too. Yes, even if youâve struggled with food guilt, body image obsession, or that all-or-nothing mindset for years. In this post, we're gonna break down what normal eating really is, how diet culture has distorted it, and how you can start taking steps toward freedomâstarting today. đ
Letâs dive in.
Spoiler alert: It doesnât mean salads and sparkling water every meal. And it definitely doesnât mean restriction, earning your food, or obsessing about calories.
In fact, trying to...
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Oh friend, if I had a dollar for every time a Christian woman whispered this question with a cocktail of guilt, shame, and curiosityâIâd be writing this blog from a beach house in Maui. đď¸
But in all seriousness, if youâve been wrestling with this exact thought, I want you to hear me loud and clear:
You are NOT disqualified from pursuing food freedom just because part of you still wants weight loss.
Letâs break this tension down togetherâwith grace, truth, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit (not the scale).
First, a big olâ exhale. Youâre not the only Christian woman who feels this way. This desire to âwant bothâ is extremely commonâespecially if youâve grown up in a performance-based or image-focused environment.
âBrittany, I donât want to obsess over food anymore... but also, Iâd love...
You donât need a different body this summer. You need a different perspective.
Whew. Let that sink in for a second, friend.
If the thought of swimsuit season makes you want to grab your comfiest black leggings and oversized T-shirt (even in the blazing July heat đĽľ), then keep reading⌠because this post? Itâs written for you.
Whether youâre Googling âhow to lose belly fat fastâ (no judgmentâweâve all been there), or debating whether itâs actually worth going to the pool because you canât stand the thought of being seen in a swimsuit, youâre not alone.
But what if I told you that your confidence this summer doesnât have to come from losing weight or changing your body?
What if it could come from the inside outâthrough mindset, style choices, and a whole lotta grace?
Letâs dive into a new way to do summer.
Every summer, the same messages creep in...
âYou canât wear that until you l...
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