If youâve ever cringed at something your kid came home saying about food or their body after a day at school⌠friend, I get it.
Iâll never forget the day my sonâfresh out of kindergartenâwaltzed through the door clutching a worksheet from his âhealthy eating lesson.â He proudly showed me where he had circled the âhealthyâ foods and Xâd out the âunhealthyâ ones, just like the teacher told him to.
Cue the deep sigh, the slow sink into my chair, and the eye roll (yes, all three happened in quick succession đ ). As a food freedom dietitian and mama who works hard to teach my kids that all foods are morally neutral, this worksheet felt like a flashing neon sign for one of those âWe need to talkâ moments.
Because hereâs the dealâthose kinds of messages? They donât just stay on the worksheet. They sink deep into our kidsâ little hearts and minds, shaping how they see food⌠and eventually, how they see themselves.
And...
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Oh friend, if I had a dollar for every time a Christian woman whispered this question with a cocktail of guilt, shame, and curiosityâIâd be writing this blog from a beach house in Maui. đď¸
But in all seriousness, if youâve been wrestling with this exact thought, I want you to hear me loud and clear:
You are NOT disqualified from pursuing food freedom just because part of you still wants weight loss.
Letâs break this tension down togetherâwith grace, truth, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit (not the scale).
First, a big olâ exhale. Youâre not the only Christian woman who feels this way. This desire to âwant bothâ is extremely commonâespecially if youâve grown up in a performance-based or image-focused environment.
âBrittany, I donât want to obsess over food anymore... but also, Iâd love...
You donât need a different body this summer. You need a different perspective.
Whew. Let that sink in for a second, friend.
If the thought of swimsuit season makes you want to grab your comfiest black leggings and oversized T-shirt (even in the blazing July heat đĽľ), then keep reading⌠because this post? Itâs written for you.
Whether youâre Googling âhow to lose belly fat fastâ (no judgmentâweâve all been there), or debating whether itâs actually worth going to the pool because you canât stand the thought of being seen in a swimsuit, youâre not alone.
But what if I told you that your confidence this summer doesnât have to come from losing weight or changing your body?
What if it could come from the inside outâthrough mindset, style choices, and a whole lotta grace?
Letâs dive into a new way to do summer.
Every summer, the same messages creep in...
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Sacrificing your sanity doesnât make you more holy. Letâs talk about what actually honors Jesus⌠and it starts with caring for YOU.
Let me guess. You just reheated your coffee for the third time today (and still didnât drink it). Youâve wiped sticky fingers, packed lunches, managed a toddler meltdown, and maybeâjust maybeâanswered three emails or texts in the middle of snack time chaos. Somewhere between all that, you remembered: âOh yeah, I was gonna start working on food freedom this summer.â
Friend⌠can we talk?
Because I need you to hear me loud and clear:
Prioritizing your recovery isnât selfish. Itâs sacred.
Even as a mama. Especially as a mama.
I hear it all the time from the incredible women I work with:
âIâll work on my food issues after the kids go back to school.â
âI feel guilty spending time on myself.â
âI canât start healing until I get all my other responsibilities handled first.â
Sound familiar?...
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Does it ever feel like your brain is stuck on a 24/7 food radio station that just wonât shut off? đď¸
Youâre folding laundryâfood.
Youâre in the middle of a meetingâfood.
Youâre talking to your spouseâstill thinking about food.
If youâre constantly wondering:
âŚthen first, let me give you a big, virtual hug and tell you this: Youâre not broken, friend. And youâre definitely not alone. đ
In todayâs post, Iâm going to walk you through exactly why you canât seem to stop thinking about food and share with you three (okay, four đ) common reasons your brain wonât let it go.
Plus, Iâll show you what you can do to finally start quieting the food noiseâwithout falling into the diet culture trap of âjust try harder.â
Oh, and because Iâm all about giving you practical, faith-filled tools, Iâve got a FREE resource you can grab at th...
If youâve ever silently panicked mid-snuggle, wondering if heâs thinking what youâre thinking about your body⌠this oneâs for you, sister.
Itâs vulnerable. Itâs uncomfortable. And itâs super tempting to just avoid the topic altogether.
But hereâs the deal: Hiding your body image struggles from your spouse wonât protect your marriageâit might just create more distance.
And thatâs the exact opposite of what you want, right?
So today, weâre getting into the nitty-gritty of how to actually talk to your husband about your body imageâwithout spiraling into shame or putting up emotional walls.
Spoiler alert: You donât have to have the perfect words. You just need an open heart and a whole lotta grace.
Letâs dive in.
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Hey there, lovely! đź If youâve ever found yourself caught in a whirlwind of negative thoughts about your body or battling the urge to control your food intake when life feels heavy, youâre not alone. Today, weâre diving deep into a topic that hits close to home: the relationship between depression and disordered eating. Grab your favorite cozy blanket, and letâs spill the tea on how to break free from these burdens!
Letâs start with some real talk. For many of us, the shadows of depression often drag along a friendâdisordered eating. Itâs like theyâre a dynamic duo thatâs tough to shake. As we discussed in the podcast, depression can alter our relationship with food, leading us to swing between restricting what we eat and binging on all the things. This creates a whirlwind of guilt and shame that can feel impossible to escape.
Why does this happen? The e...
Ah, the big question, right? As a Christian woman, you know that honoring God isnât just about Sunday mornings and reading scriptureâit's about every part of our lives, including how we treat our bodies. But when it comes to health, wellness, and honoring God with our bodies, sometimes the waters can get a little muddy, canât they? đ¤
Is honoring God with our bodies just about avoiding certain foods or working out to maintain a certain weight? Or does it go a little deeper? â ď¸Spoiler alert: it totally goes deeper! So, letâs dig in, spill some tea, and look at how honoring God with our bodies is actually a freeing, joyful, and worshipful act.
1 Corinthians 6:19-20 tells us, âDo you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.â Powerful stuff, right? But what does ...
Have you ever confided in someone on a bad body image day only to get this response: âHey, just remember youâre fearfully and wonderfully made!â Why is it that this scripture doesnât seem to help for more than 15 seconds, or sometimes, not at all? In this episode, I brought on my sweet friend, Heather Creekmore, a Christian author and host of the Compared to Who podcast, who led us in diving deeper into this beautiful piece of Scripture! She shared:Â
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Do you ever feel like your body image journey is going nowhere, no matter how hard you try? Throughout my career, Iâve heard so many women repeat the same thing: âI wish I didnât think about my body so much, and I want to see it in a more positive light.â If thatâs you right now, this episode is most certainly for you, friend. Today, Iâm going to show you the #1 reason your body image might not be improving, the 4 different types of body image that you might struggle with, and action steps you can take to break free from negative body image.Â
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