There was a moment in a coaching call I will never forget.
She sat there, shoulders slightly hunched, voice steadyâbut only just.
âI think Iâm always going to hate my body.â
Not because of something extreme.
Not because of a diagnosis or a major life event.
But because of her weight.
She went on to explain that every time the number on the scale crept upâeven slightlyâit felt like proof of something deeper. Proof that she was failing. Proof that she was less attractive. Less disciplined. Less⌠worthy.
And then she said something that hit even deeper:
âI donât think I can fully trust God with this part of my life.â
Not because she didnât love Him.
But because fear had gotten louder than truth.
If you have ever felt that tensionâthe push and pull between wanting peace with your body and feeling absolutely terrified of weight gainâyou are not alone.
And more importantly, you are not stuck.
This is not just about your body.
It is not even just about food.
This is about freedom....
Ever felt that wave of shame hit right after eatingâlike somehow youâve âmessed upâ again?
That internal voice whispering, âYou shouldnât have eaten that. You shouldâve had more control.â
Guess what? So has nearly every Christian woman Iâve coached through her food freedom journey.
In this episode of the Faith-Filled Food Freedom podcast, I sat down for a live coaching call with one of our Joy-Filled Eater students, Michelleâa compassionate, faith-filled woman whoâs been doing the hard, holy work of untangling years of disordered thoughts around food and her body.
What unfolded was a powerful conversation about how faith can motivate healing instead of fueling shameâand how to finally stop feeling like God is disappointed in you every time you eat.
If youâve ever struggled with food guilt or body shame, youâll recognize the mental chatter Michelle shared during our session:
âI know what I should doâI teach these same principles to other...
Ever feel like youâre the exception? đââď¸ Like, sure, other women can heal their relationship with food, but you? Nah. Youâve tried the therapy, the devotionals, the diets, the accountability groups, the affirmations⌠and still find yourself knee-deep in a pint of ice cream wondering if food freedom is even possible for you.
Friend, let me assure you right now: you are not the exception.
This lie is one of the enemyâs favorite tricks. If he can get you to believe that recovery isnât possible for you, he keeps you stuck in shame, isolation, and a never-ending cycle of striving.
But hereâs the truth: Godâs freedom is for you, too. And in this post, Iâm going to walk you through how to recover from binge eating as a Christian woman with practical tools, relatable stories, and most importantlyâa Christ-centered lens.
Letâs be realâbinge eating is complicated. Itâs not just about âloving food too muchâ (eye roll đ). For many women I wor...
If youâve ever cringed at something your kid came home saying about food or their body after a day at school⌠friend, I get it.
Iâll never forget the day my sonâfresh out of kindergartenâwaltzed through the door clutching a worksheet from his âhealthy eating lesson.â He proudly showed me where he had circled the âhealthyâ foods and Xâd out the âunhealthyâ ones, just like the teacher told him to.
Cue the deep sigh, the slow sink into my chair, and the eye roll (yes, all three happened in quick succession đ ). As a food freedom dietitian and mama who works hard to teach my kids that all foods are morally neutral, this worksheet felt like a flashing neon sign for one of those âWe need to talkâ moments.
Because hereâs the dealâthose kinds of messages? They donât just stay on the worksheet. They sink deep into our kidsâ little hearts and minds, shaping how they see food⌠and eventually, how they see themselves.
And...
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Oh friend, if I had a dollar for every time a Christian woman whispered this question with a cocktail of guilt, shame, and curiosityâIâd be writing this blog from a beach house in Maui. đď¸
But in all seriousness, if youâve been wrestling with this exact thought, I want you to hear me loud and clear:
You are NOT disqualified from pursuing food freedom just because part of you still wants weight loss.
Letâs break this tension down togetherâwith grace, truth, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit (not the scale).
First, a big olâ exhale. Youâre not the only Christian woman who feels this way. This desire to âwant bothâ is extremely commonâespecially if youâve grown up in a performance-based or image-focused environment.
âBrittany, I donât want to obsess over food anymore... but also, Iâd love...
You donât need a different body this summer. You need a different perspective.
Whew. Let that sink in for a second, friend.
If the thought of swimsuit season makes you want to grab your comfiest black leggings and oversized T-shirt (even in the blazing July heat đĽľ), then keep reading⌠because this post? Itâs written for you.
Whether youâre Googling âhow to lose belly fat fastâ (no judgmentâweâve all been there), or debating whether itâs actually worth going to the pool because you canât stand the thought of being seen in a swimsuit, youâre not alone.
But what if I told you that your confidence this summer doesnât have to come from losing weight or changing your body?
What if it could come from the inside outâthrough mindset, style choices, and a whole lotta grace?
Letâs dive into a new way to do summer.
Every summer, the same messages creep in...
âYou canât wear that until you l...
Sacrificing your sanity doesnât make you more holy. Letâs talk about what actually honors Jesus⌠and it starts with caring for YOU.
Let me guess. You just reheated your coffee for the third time today (and still didnât drink it). Youâve wiped sticky fingers, packed lunches, managed a toddler meltdown, and maybeâjust maybeâanswered three emails or texts in the middle of snack time chaos. Somewhere between all that, you remembered: âOh yeah, I was gonna start working on food freedom this summer.â
Friend⌠can we talk?
Because I need you to hear me loud and clear:
Prioritizing your recovery isnât selfish. Itâs sacred.
Even as a mama. Especially as a mama.
I hear it all the time from the incredible women I work with:
âIâll work on my food issues after the kids go back to school.â
âI feel guilty spending time on myself.â
âI canât start healing until I get all my other responsibilities handled first.â
Sound familiar?...
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Does it ever feel like your brain is stuck on a 24/7 food radio station that just wonât shut off? đď¸
Youâre folding laundryâfood.
Youâre in the middle of a meetingâfood.
Youâre talking to your spouseâstill thinking about food.
If youâre constantly wondering:
âŚthen first, let me give you a big, virtual hug and tell you this: Youâre not broken, friend. And youâre definitely not alone. đ
In todayâs post, Iâm going to walk you through exactly why you canât seem to stop thinking about food and share with you three (okay, four đ) common reasons your brain wonât let it go.
Plus, Iâll show you what you can do to finally start quieting the food noiseâwithout falling into the diet culture trap of âjust try harder.â
Oh, and because Iâm all about giving you practical, faith-filled tools, Iâve got a FREE resource you can grab at th...
If youâve ever silently panicked mid-snuggle, wondering if heâs thinking what youâre thinking about your body⌠this oneâs for you, sister.
Itâs vulnerable. Itâs uncomfortable. And itâs super tempting to just avoid the topic altogether.
But hereâs the deal: Hiding your body image struggles from your spouse wonât protect your marriageâit might just create more distance.
And thatâs the exact opposite of what you want, right?
So today, weâre getting into the nitty-gritty of how to actually talk to your husband about your body imageâwithout spiraling into shame or putting up emotional walls.
Spoiler alert: You donât have to have the perfect words. You just need an open heart and a whole lotta grace.
Letâs dive in.
Picture this: You're running a three-legged race with your husband⌠but y...
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