Have you ever skipped dessert—not because you weren’t craving it—but because you were scared of what it might do to your body? Or pushed through a workout even when your body was practically screaming, "Girl, sit down!"… and you called it “discipline”? 🤬

You’re not alone, friend. Not even a little.

In today’s blog post, we’re pulling back the curtain on a question that SO many Christian women wrestle with in silence: Is this actually healthy… or is it unhelpful patterns in disguise?

Spoiler alert: There’s a big difference between God-honoring discipline and the soul-crushing pressure to be "perfect."

So, how can you tell the difference? Let’s dive in.

When "Discipline" Feels Like a Prison: My Personal Wake-Up Call

A few years ago, A client of mine was waking up early not to spend time with Jesus, but to squeeze in a workout before breakfast. I didn’t feel well. I was exhausted. My body was begging for rest, but I told myself, "This is what healthy people do. This is discipline...

Trying to fight off the urge to restrict or body check in an emotionally intense or vulnerable state without having a plan ahead-of-time is like telling yourself to get to the other side of the pool faster than Micheal Phelps 🏊‍♀️.

Defeat is pretty much all but guaranteed.

BUT, when you intentionally prepare for the roadblocks on your body image and food freedom journey before you’re face-to-face with them, it’s a whole new game! Using the Micheal Phelps example, what if you realized that no one said you had to swim? (Jet ski, anyone?) Today, I’m going to walk you through a simple strategy that will help you know exactly what you’re going to do the next time you’re faced with a Micheal Phelps-sized battle on your food freedom journey. 

This strategy helped my client reduce her binge eating frequency by 90% in 1 month!

One of my sweet clients came to me with a 20-year struggle with bingeing. She used this behavior as a source of comfort. Whenever she began a binge, her emotions...